The 3 Simple Steps to Finally Start (and Stick With) Running

The 3 Simple Steps to Finally Start (and Stick With) Running
Beginners
Running Tips
Written by
Mark Kennedy, RRCA Running Coach
Mark Kennedy, RRCA Running Coach
Published on
October 26, 2025

After coaching beginners for over 10 years, I’ve learned why most people fail — and the simple approach that actually works.

I see the same pattern again and again: someone decides to “become a runner.” They download that popular app (you know the one), buy new shoes, tell their friends… and then—life happens.

The problem isn’t motivation. It’s misunderstanding.

Most people think running is complicated — that you need special gear, perfect weather, or “runner genetics.” But after helping thousands go from “I can’t run 30 seconds” to “I just ran 25 minutes straight,” I’ve realized it comes down to three things.

And most people get at least one wrong.

Why Most Running Plans Set You Up to Fail

Most running advice treats running like a fitness problem: push harder, go faster, do more. But that’s not how it works.

Take Couch to 5K — a good idea in theory, but in practice? It ramps up too quickly, ignores strength training, and focuses on distance instead of time. That combo leads to pressure, frustration, and injuries.

In a recent study of 110 people who started the Couch to 5K program, only 27% finished it — most dropped out before the halfway point, often due to injury or the program ramping up too quickly.

Here’s the science: your muscles adapt in 2–3 weeks, but your joints and tendons take 6–12. Around week 3 or 4, you feel ready for more, but your body isn’t — and that’s when most beginners get hurt or quit.

The truth?

Becoming a runner isn’t a fitness problem. It takes a completely different approach.

The 3 Steps That Actually Work

Step 1: Get Your Head Right (and Forget Everything You Think You Know)

Your biggest obstacle isn’t your fitness — it’s your expectations.

I see it all the time:

  • “I used to run 10 Ks easily.”
  • “People will think I look ridiculous.”
  • “I only ran half a mile — that’s pathetic.”

Here’s what I tell everyone: forget all that. The old you who crushed races? Doesn’t exist right now — and that’s okay. How fast you go doesn’t matter. How you look doesn’t matter.

Research shows we stick with habits when three needs are met:

  1. feeling in control (autonomy)
  2. feeling capable (competence)
  3. feeling connected (relatedness)

Most plans destroy all three by being too rigid, too hard, and too isolating.

The mindset shift that changes everything: stop asking “Am I good at this?” and start asking “Am I getting better?”

Your only job?

Show up and move forward.

Step 2: Follow a Plan That Protects You From Yourself

This is the game-changer.

The best beginner plans don’t push you forward — they hold you back. They protect you from enthusiasm that leads to burnout.

The None to Run plan, for example, starts with 30-second runs and 2-minute walks for 25 minutes total. It’s designed for people who can’t yet run 10 minutes without stopping — and that’s exactly why it works.

During your runs, aim for an effort level of 5 or lower out of 10. You should be able to chat comfortably. If you’re gasping at 8 out of 10, slow down.

Rate of Perceived Effort Scale for Beginner Runners (click to enlarge)

You’re building endurance, not testing it.

We also include strength work because strong runners are injury-free runners. And repeating weeks? Totally normal.

Consistency matters more than progression.

Start easier than you think you need to.

You’ll build confidence, avoid injury, and actually look forward to your next run.

Step 3: Get Real Support (From a Running Coach + Real People — Not AI)

Most plans assume you’ll follow them perfectly. Real life doesn’t work that way.

You’ll miss runs. Your kids get sick. Work gets crazy. Suddenly, you’re “off track” again.

That’s where real, human support makes all the difference — not algorithms or automated messages, but actual people:

  • A place to ask real questions and get honest advice from a certified running coach.
  • Practical guidance when life happens: when to repeat weeks, how to handle setbacks, what to do if something hurts.
  • A community of beginner runners who truly get it — people cheering you on and sharing what worked for them.

In the free None to Run community, you get both: encouragement from fellow beginners and access to expert coaching when you need direction.

Because real people don’t just motivate you — they help you problem-solve, keep perspective, and stay consistent.

Research shows that social support and expert guidance dramatically increase your chances of sticking with running long-term.

How It All Fits Together

The right mindset helps you pick a sustainable plan and seek help when needed.

A good plan builds confidence, reinforcing that mindset.

And real support keeps you grounded when life gets messy.

Remove one piece, and the whole thing wobbles.

What to Do Next

Step 1: Write down any negative beliefs about your running. Replace each with a kinder, progress-based version.

Step 2: Choose a beginner-friendly plan that starts easy, includes strength, and lets you repeat weeks — like the None to Run app.

Step 3: Surround yourself with real support — join a community that understands your journey and get guidance from a real running coach who’s been there.

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The Truth About Becoming a Runner

Becoming a runner isn’t about running faster or farther. It’s about becoming the kind of person who runs.

That transformation doesn’t come from perfect weeks — it comes from consistent, imperfect ones.

Every expert was once a beginner.

You can be one too.

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